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Why Girls Play Hard to Get


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When it comes to girls and dating, one of the things many guys can’t quite put their fingers on is why girls play hard to get.

To many guys, the reasons why girls or women play hard to get is a mystery, a constant headache, a frustrating experience that not only causes them to feel discouraged but does in an annoying way.

So in this short article, I share with you why girls play hard to get and what to do about it.

Why do girls play hard to get?

You probably have the personality and qualities that are naturally attractive to women.

You are fun to be around…

…you have a great sense of humor…

…you’re a great conversationalist and whatnot.

So why does a girl play hard to get with you?

Even when you’re with a girl you desire, she seems to like your company and wants to hang out with you more often. So why is she playing hard to get? Why does she play hard to get despite the fact that you’re already in a serious relationship with her?

Read on…

Read: 7 Signs a Girl Is Playing Hard to Get with You

Read Also: How Do Girls Play Hard to Get?

Why girls play hard to get

Girls and women play hard to get for three simple reasons:

  1. to make us (guys) appreciate that they are not easy
  2. they want to know if a guy is really interested or into them
  3. they are used to guys desperately pursuing them, so a girl is gotta have fun with it

So there you have it, the main reasons why girls play hard to get.

Let’s go into detail.

#1. To make us appreciate that they are not easy

They don’t want to seem easy… therefore, if we work hard to get them, then they appear valuable instead.

When a girl has a romantic interest in a guy, she won’t want to be straightforward with her feelings for fear of being perceived easy… so she will play hard to get, have the guy make a move or the first move, softly reject him but leave him guessing, have him work extra hard to seek her approval until she gives in to his advances.

#2. They want to be sure if a guy is really interested in them…

…so if the guy goes to the trouble to get them, then he really loves them.

Girls desire to want to be in a romantic relationship with a guy is not only dictated by their attraction for him, but also by their level of trust.

Sure, a girl will find a guy attractive and want him, but she wouldn’t just give herself to him… she will want to trust him first.

#3. They are used to guys DESPERATELY pursuing them…

…so with this, some girls play hard to get PURPOSELY to control guys to their advantage.

Keep Reading: Does Playing Hard to Get Work?

Final Words

So again… the reasons why girls play hard to get.

Now, what is a guy to do? [Read: ‘What to Do When the Girl You Desire Plays Hard to Get’ and ‘When the Girl You Desire Plays Hard to Get: Should You Pursue Her or Give Up?’]

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Sexual Aattraction

If you want to make any girl or woman want you and want to be in an intimate and sexual relationship with you, then this is the e-book for you. ‘Sexual Attraction’ teaches you how to make ANY girl or woman feel a strong sexual desire for you in the shortest possible time.


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