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Question: She plays hard to get what should I do?
Answer
Play hard to get yourself. In other words, use her own game back at her.
Don’t give her what she wants – and here I mean the ‘chase’.
Lemme explain
Your first instinct when the girl you desire plays hard to get will be to chase her.
You would want to do whatever she says and give her whatever she asks for, including buying her things and spend money on her to show her that you value her and are really interested in her. Because you’re afraid to lose her if you don’t.
Plus, you will be afraid to upset the girl and will always be apologetic in order not to offend her.
Yes, it makes sense to pursue her because she is attractive and you were lucky to get her and you wouldn’t want to risk losing her.
But the problem is…
…you will UNKNOWINGLY give away your power.
‘Power’ here is your manly dignity – the ability to act as a man and have influence and control (power) over a woman and situations, including leading women to the decisions they want to make and not being controlled and bossed around.
You see, when a woman (or a girl) has power over you (ultimate control over you), she can easily manipulate you.
And she might even go into “HARDER to get” mode to make you work HARDER to get her, do everything she wants, and give her whatever she asks for… including spending tons of money on her to get her approval.
That being said…
…play hard to get yourself when a girl plays hard to get with you
Use her own game back at her. And be SUBTLE with it.
Subtle, in the sense that you don’t want to make noticeable your intentions… you want to nonverbally communicate to her that, by nature, you’re not obsessed with women, and thus, you don’t chase women as most guys do.
How do you do this?
Simple…
- Be cool – act indifferent to her behavior and actions. Don’t totally ignore, though… hang out like nothing has changed between the two of you.
- Get yourself busy and engage in fun activities (preferably outdoor activities) beside pursuing her. You can even hang out with your friends and enjoy your hobbies – this will take your mind off WIMPISHLY chasing her.
- Heck! date other girls – go to places GIRLS are and meet a few. This help overcomes the torture of HAVING her and will also take your mind off WIMPISHLY chasing her. Plus, you might even meet someone more beautiful and even better than her. [Read: ‘What It Means to Date’ and ‘The One Dating Advice That Will Give You Success More Than Anything’]
Make her feel the ache of your absence… make her miss you, wondering what you’re doing, and thinking about you.
When you play hard to get with a woman (or a girl), you stand out in an attractive… the girl will see you differently from other guys and will be more attracted to you because you’re not like the guys she meets who desperately pursue her and do wimpy things to get her affection and approval.
She will find you unique and interesting.
You see, you want to give the girl the impression that if she doesn’t want you, you’re going to find another awesome girl who will… and hence, you’re not going to pursue her
This is very attractive to girls… and when you play your cards well, the girl will be the one to chase instead.
To borrow a phrase from dating expert David DeAngelo:
“It’s far better to ATTRACT a woman than to CHASE one”
When you’re able to do this, you will turn the tables and have the girl chase you instead. [Read: ‘How to Play Hard to Get with a Girl to Have Her Chase You’]
Keep Reading: What to Do When the Girl You Desire Plays Hard to Get
Read Also: When the Girl You Desire Plays Hard to Get: Should You Pursue Her or Give Up?
Now, understand…
Before you can successfully play hard to get you will have to, first of all, have something the girl needs or will want – that is be desirable and attractive to have her WANT you. [Read: ‘Personality Traits Women Find Most Attractive in Men’ and ‘How to Be Attractive to Women’]
[Read Also: ‘How to Become an Alpha Male (And Get Any Woman Attracted to You)’
So there you have it…
…what to do when a girl plays hard to get.
She will be expecting you to pursue her and do whatever she wants and asks for… but DON’T – don’t give her what she wants – the “chase”. In other words, act contrary to her expectations. Give her the impression that you’re not obsessed with her, and therefore you’re not going to pursue her.
Even if you’ve expressed your desire for her, and now she’s playing hard to get, convey to her that the fact that you find her attractive and expressed your desire for her doesn’t mean you’re going to DESPERATELY pursue her. This sends a powerful message about how VALUABLE you are. And she is going to find you unique and interesting and will be the one chasing you.
I hope this article has given you an insight into what to do when a girl plays hard to get.
Do you have questions? Then don’t hesitate to email me at josh@guysandgurls.com.
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